Guide to Manage a Lovely and Sex-free Christian Relationship Life

SEX-FREE AND INTERESTING CHRISTIAN RELATIONSHIP IS POSSIBLE.

YES! A relationship that is SEXUALLY-PURE can be 100% interesting.

 Love is what should birth a relationship in the first place and not lust or sexual desire.
 If your relationship is based on sex; you have ruined its foundation.

 The goal of courtship is to help build friendship and intimacy between you and your partner. 

The journey called marriage is better run with your best friend hence your partner should be your close friend.

Recently, a friend of mine was scared to visit her boyfriend.
 I asked her what the problem is, she said the only thing they do in common is sex. 

They have sex all of the time they ever spent together. 
This lady got tired of the relationship because she couldn't build friendship with the guy. 

This is a pointer to the fact that pre-marital sex doesn't build a lasting bond for your relationship. 
Your relationship is not boring because you are not having sex. Therefore, it is very important to set your boundary from the start of the relationship. Of a truth the flesh will always wage war against your decision to keep a holy relationship but your love for God will keep you standing till the end.

If you are in a relationship and you are always feeling bored with the person; there are many things involved.

1. Check your motive: What do you need the relationship for? 

What's your goal?
 If your reason is to have sexual satisfaction, no amount of interesting activities will excite you.

2. Ignorant of how to make a Godly and exciting relationship.

3. Emotional incompatibility.

A sexually-pure relationship can be interesting. Christianity is not boring. Let not spirituality make our lives miserable.

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There are a number of things you can do together to make your relationship fulfilling.

1. Be a good talker and a listener. Discuss issues of life. Talk! Gist! Laugh together over stuff that excite you.

2. Share life experiences. Gist about your past achievements, mistakes and lessons, family etc

3. Discuss your vision, goal, purpose. 
This will enable each of you to have an idea of what the future holds for your union and how you fit in your partner's life.

4. Attend programs/seminar/conferences together. 
Be it career, business or spiritual.

5. Catch some fun through social outings and media e.g chat online, follow each other posts, go shopping together, cinema, attend functions/parties together especially wedding, go to beach (avoid seductive wears, pls), museum centre, visit your mentors/spiritual parents together, spend time with your families together, watch godly movies together, etc.

6. Word Study: challenge each other to improve on your relationship with God. Have a study manual and feast on God's word together. 
You can fix a time to do this face to face OR via phone conversation.

7. Set aside a day or more for fasting/prayer. 
Praying together knits your soul together, builds a foundation for your future home and register your union as another home for Jesus in the making. Please don't do vigil together o and don't pray in tongues under the "BLUE LIGHT"

8. Unite your brains. Buy books for each other, read and share your thoughts. 
Set reading ultimatum. 
Avoid reading books on sex together.

 In fact don't read them until your marriage is in view.

Keep doing all these activities and before you exhaust the list the wedding bell will ring. 

This set of activities will still have to go on inside of marriage or else marriage will become BORING even with SEX.

Above all, let your greatest treasure be your relationship with Jesus. 
Fall in love with Christ and He will teach you how to love your partner right. If you are not circumcised in your heart none of the above activities will replace your lust for fornication.

Watch! 
Self-control is needful as any of these activities can be abused.

Enjoy your relationship with God and your partner.
Shalom.

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Thanks